Cant even think of a topic...lol

I had such a lovely weekend...I got to spend time with some girlfriends that are so dear to me...we ended up gisting, cooking, watching naija movies, gisting, cooking some more and catching up on old times.

I'm at work now with no voice..I swear my neighbors hated the hell outta me this weekend...Oh well..I dont make noise often at all..so they can bear with me this once...

I really love my friends that I feel are very dear to me...It gets really lonely out here sometimes..and sometimes all one needs is just a few good friends, food, music and it can be such a memorable experience...

Went to church yesterday..and had to ask God for specific things that I need and want in my life...a good job, future family, my current family, friends etc...I feel more and more that in order for me to really have a relationship with God I have to be more open to Him...cus He already knows what I desire..its left for me to ask....I really hope my prayers are answered..

So I guess I am a self professed OCD sufferer...there things I have to do a certain way and it gets to me if its not done that way by me or anyone else...also I find that am persistent...

It has gotten me in hot soup sometimes ie.(being with someone knowing fully well they aint good for u, and not one good thing will come out of it)

but it also has helped me acheive alot of goals I wanted to acheive..

This is a new week and only God knows how its going to progress...Right now am at work..my mind is wondering...thinking about


.....sitting on the beach....with my darling (whoever God destines)....sipping on some margaritas..watching the sun go down..and listening to the beautiful music the tides make....without a care in the world....

am awake now...no need to dream...

Meanwhile tell me why I have waited to the very last day to file my taxes.. I do this every year consistently ...I dont know why....I am also a queen procastinator.....that one nah story for another day...

Right now am soooo loving Asa-Bibanke..and it has been on repeat alllll weekend...once I love something I love it haaarddd.....even when I love someone I love hard too....

Been burnt a couple of times because of that ..but I love to love..and in exchange I love to be loved as well...So I continue to pray for that someone who will love me just as much as I will love him....

Alright ...Boss is calling..got to go...will be back soon....I promise....

It sort of looks like my writing thought process is a little jumbled..am going to try and work on a bit more structure....

Later folks....

Halleluyah its Monday.....NOT!!!!

Hello all,

How was the weekend...Well for me I had a pretty quiet weekend. Got my hair done on saturday.. went out to dinner on sunday with the ex..(long story)...and pretty much just lazied around on sunday...

Didn't go to church just because I wanted to sleep in one sunday...but still ended up waking up at like 8am n every other hour till I rolled outta bed at 11:30am

I like my weekends...am such a homebody that I can easily stay home from friday till monday and not feel left out of society at all. Sometimes I crave a night out with the girls painting the town red..but more often than none, i'll settle for a movie..something sweet to eat..not popcorn cus I hate having to pick it out of my teeth...and lay on my very comfortable couch..with the lights off...ZZZZzzzzzzzz..ok lights back on...

I never thought I would start a blog let alone have people notice that it exists..so I guess am happy and this gives me a little more motivation to continue with it...

So I said I would update on that guy and the number right...

well I did see him last week as I thought I would...and I had made up my mind that I wasn't really going to pay him no mind to see what he'll do..you know we ladies gotta play the game too..

Guy (reaching for my hands): Am sooo sorry I didn't call back...the guy I was talking to didn't leave till about 2:30am..and again I didn't save the number so I lost it after making some more calls. I do apologize...

Diva: Uh-huh

Guy: Am serious you don't believe me?

Diva: Uh-huh

So he reaches for his bag and brings out the broken phone...

Guy: See I wasn't lying about the phone being broken...

Diva: Never said you were..

Guy: So how can I get your number again, I dont have my new phone on me..

Diva: And I dont have mine either...

mind you I guess you can say i've lost the interest...so am no longer really looking forward to the phonecall anymore..and besides I dont think he is as interested either...

Diva: you do have a pen and paper right...

so he brings out a pen n piece of paper...

Diva: Now this is the 2nd time i'm giving you my number..I would suggest using it...(to myself) but I won't hold my breath...

Guy: Thanks ..i'll definately call this time...

now after all this..there are a couple of girls around him..and he seems to be getting alot of attention...and it looks like he's rather spoilt and used to being chased and not the chaser....

so I excuse myself and head on home...

Am sure you have guessed...he didn't call..but am not bothered....once I lose interest in a guy its really hard to get it going again...

so in the words of a realist.....NEXT!!!!!!....

Am looking for a job...n wow...job searching can be the most boring thing one ever does...its so mundane...creating a profile, uploading your resume, applying for a job...repeat....

I hope I find one soon so I don't have to keep doing this..

I've never really been one of a writer so I hope am penning my thoughts out as clearly as i can....

This is yet another week that we've all been blessed with....I hope mine is alittle more exciting than the last few weeks i've had....

later folks....

another week, another drag

so update on the guy taking the number

...after about a week of waiting to hear from the guy..i finally gave in..and gave the guy a call..

But of course excuses

Diva:...Hello...how are u doing?

hot guy: hey am good...sorry the voice sounds familiar but am not sure who this is..

Diva: oh its me Diva..we exchanged numbers some time back...just calling to say hello...forget to save my number?

hot guy: oh hi Diva...so sorry my phone broke last week and i lost most of my numbers..also i've been ill and am just gettin better today...how are u doin??

Diva: I'm good..can't complain....hope u feel better....

hot guy: so what are you doing tomorrow? wanna meet up in school?

Diva: sorry i have plans already for tomorrow....cuts in

hot guy: hey ..can i give u a call back..have to discuss somethings with a friend...ill call u later..

Diva: no problem at all...take care...

needless to say ...the dusch bag never called...i'll be seeing him soon in school..n would love to see what he'll have to say...as for me..am not interested anymore...good riddance...

Unto other news....

girls do u ever have this one friend that just refuses to grow up?? how do u rid urself of those...well i finally have...

how about i have/had a friend who got all pissy and mad because i hung out with her family member (cousin) who she doesn't talk to anymore, and expects everyone else to hate... she sends me these crazy messages..telling me to find my own friends..haha...n stop piggybacking off of hers..since she introduced me to her family member...(mind you she hasn't spoken to that family member in about a year now) and me and said family member have been cool since we were introduced because we have other connections that bring us together once in a while..ie past educational institutions...

i had a good laugh on that one... now i have one less human being to worry about....

today is pretty quiet as usual at work...except there was a bit of a squabble between a couple of my co-workers...twas rather funny..glad i didn't get into it...

i'll sign off here...no more drama for sometime...

Taking Down a Girl's Number...

I had a really fun weekend. Got a chance to hang out with some friends I hadn't seen in a while and got to go out partying as well.

More recently I have stopped going out all together, so getting a chance to have a few drinks, dance and laugh with the girls was definately a very rewarding feeling.

Am back at work...Today is crazy quiet so am trying to get some much needed school work done.

Well I do have something thats been bugging my mind for a bit now..so here goes...

Why is it that a guy will flirt with a girl, ask her for her number, give her his number, tell her he'll call and doesn't call?

Today will be the 4th day since this guy that I sort of fancy took my number and promised to call and still hasn't.

What is the rule here. When is the girl supposed to take the first step and call the guy or text him without sounding like she was/is desperate for his communication? Or should she just take this as...well if he was interested he would have called by now.

Don't know if anyone actually reads my blog as of yet..but I sure would like to know when it is ok to make the first move without appearing to be desperate.

Other than that...I have no real plans for the evening..probably watch a movie and call it an early night....

Looking forward to more days of blogging. It sure does feel like am getting stuff off my mind in my own world....

Hello ladies,

Why?

Today I have a resounding headache...Yesterday I went for an appointment and received information that could last me a life time. Since then I have had this headache that refuses to go.

At the same time there is not much I can do because some of the dynamics are out of my control. Anyways it is well is all I can say.

Today is another day.....Made plans this evening with a certain somebody..who calls this afternoon asking if I can come later than we originally planned.

Although I was really looking forward to this I have to do a rain check because I do have to be at work tmr morning, and the person doesn't particularly live close by.

I hate to have been looking forward to something and then something happens and I get dissapointed.

I guess I'll just have to enjoy a quiet evening in tonight.

I think i'm ready for a "real" relationship...but I can't seem to find what am looking for in any man??

I wonder how long this will last.....

There's Always a First Time for Everythang!!!

I am probably one of the late bloomers to blogville, however I can say I am pretty much caught up in the world of reading blogs. Today I finally decided to create my own space and put my thoughts to paper.

I haven't quite decided what I want this blog to be about, but I'm sure that as I continue along this journey, it'll definately come to me.

Today is a day like any other, except its the first time i'll be keeping an online diary.

I'll tell you all a lil about myself without giving much away.

I am a Nigerian Diva....lol....am finishing up school, and I work...

I try to have fun with whatever I do....the weather is a bit cold now...so going out has almost come to a halt...as soon as the weather gets better again..this Diva will be out and about....

Look forward to meeting new people on this....

I'll leave it here for day numero uno!!!